Arg, having such a hard time with my boyfriend of +- 5 years. Not sure if it's just easier to call it quits. That idea hurts too much though.
But on the other hand, I feel he just takes me for granted.
I know I cannot change a person, but how do I get my needs across to him in a way that he'll understand and respect?
Every now and again (Becoming rather frequent) he binge drinks. If I'm not with him, he comes home at 3AM or similar. If I'm with him, he usually lands up fighting with me, and doubts whether he can trust me - any other guy to him is a threat.

It's becoming hard work and scary. He's 37 and I'm 24