I was never much interested in sex at all from the time I was a teenager & yet guys were always my best friends & I was always one of the guys & had more common interests with them than I ever did with women & was never pressured by them to have sex because I was one of the guys (I was never on AD's until after I was 40 years old). I very much enjoyed that relationship with guys because I worked in a field that at the time only guys worked in (aerospace firmware design engineer), so it would have been really uncomfortable if I hadn't been accepted as one of the guys which was how I grew up as a kid in a neighborhood full of guys that I was an equal with.

My belief is that sex is part of the human design for the procreation of humans & for the enjoyment in the marriage relationship, not for recreation outside of marriage as it has become. Men's drive is based on visual where womens drive on the feeling of love.

I have heard that there are psychological studies being done on the level of depression & stress that comes from having sex outside of the marriage relationship...will have to look them up as I didn't write down the information when I heard it on the radio.

I didn't even find it sex enjoyable in marriage but looking back, I think it was because I never loved my husband, so that feeling of wanting to have that sexual relationship with him never happened.

This is my personal view on the subject matter