I don't think that the fact you wear depends has anything to do with your incontinence....you just wear them because of the incontinence problem you have.....don't think that information is relative other than proof that you have the problem which he knows anyway. I am sure he would think that you would be doing something to help you deal with the problem, so I don't think that information would be of any importance to him personally.....others may have a different opinion.....will be interesting to see.

I am sorry that you are struggling with this problem. I know after my mothers cancer surgery, she was struggling with this & it was ever so difficult for her.

I know how bad it feels only having a problem when I was picking up a heavy bucket of water to put back in he horse stall, somehow, the weight & the pressure it put on my full bladder ended up making me loose control on going pee.....oh my, was I embarrassed. Luckily no one else was there but me & the horses, but I had to stop by the post office to mail some bills & needed to get out to go inside. Pulled my shirt down as far as I could & ran in & out so quickly....plus no one was at the post office at that time of day anyway. Ugh, it's a horrible feeling & I so understand the struggle & the stress you must be feeling.

Hopefully a specialist will be able to help you with this since you have a problem with both the bladder & bowel. The reason they are secialists is because they have the answers & knowledge that the common Dr doesn't have.......hopefully this will be the case for you.