Angie,

I have read through the post & all the replies & think that there is only one point that hasn't been touched on based on your comment:
[QUOTE]He always is yelling about something that made him angry. I can deal with that, and even get him to calm down everytime. /QUOTE]
Many times women think that they can fix the problem especially if at first they feel like they have had some success. The problem is that at first, you end up with some success because they are trying hard to impress at least enough to get you to feel safe enough with them.....just enough to get your feelings trapped & hooked.....but after they feel like they have you where they want you, then they treat you the same as they treat their mother or any other long list of women I am sure they have had in their lives.

Like everyone else has said.....get out now. You realize there is a problem......don't feel like you can fix it & get into that feeling that" You are the ONE THAT CAN MAKE THEM DIFFERENT". It won't happen. As everyone else has said, he will treat you in the same bad way that he treats his mother.

Actually I know in California, you can call adult protective services (APS). It isn't limited to the elderly....it applies to any adult that is being abused by someone no matter what their age.

Like a the others have said....get out now before the relationship goes any farther or ends up being horribly dangerous for you to get out of.

I am sure that everyone is interested in how it's going with you....please let us know as we care & don't want to see you harmed in any way.