Got any friends with medical experience at all? If that wound gets too infected, she may develop gangrine. May loose the toe. Also, I remember being so depressed for so long that every dish was dirty, every outfit dirty. I did not answer the phone. My sister came and took me to the hospital. I could barely wisper and moved in slow motion. I was admitted for several weeks. When I got out, my car was spotless and my tank filled. I got home and my house was spotless. I felt greatful and not judged. I thanked her and she never said a word about it. And believe me, my house was in pretty bad shape before. I am sure as she was cleaning she encountered some pretty scarey stuff while cleaning. But I was really greatful. Things haven't quite gotten that bad since then. But I just wanted to throw this idea at you. Hope you find a way to work through this.