Men and women: Equal but not the same.

I believe that, unfortunately, there are a number women who make strong statements that they wanted to be treated equal but readily play the gender card or try to use sex to their advantage. (I also feel too many people say they are for equality but try to play the race card.)

I just don't understand why if a man holds a door for another man he's polite, but if he holds the door for a women he's sexist.
I've joked before that "chivalry is dead because women killed it", but there have too many instances where that painfully true.