Yeah, you're right...he needs to pull up his socks!!!
I know I might sound like a total ***** but no way in hell is my daughter's "dad" ever having access to her again!
Even though he's got a drug/alcohol abuse problem, I never stopped him from visiting her, but made it clear that he's either THERE or he ISN'T, this convo took place in October 2009...he CHOSE to visit 2 weeks ago! Like WTF is up with that?? Do you conveniently remember twice a year that you have a daughter???
My mom chased him away THANK GOD

She's only 6 but wants nothing more to do with him and I support her decision!
Guess my point is... guys are sO quick to blame the mom when they have zero relationship with their kids, mine chose all on her own to cut ties with her "father", your bf should be careful suga.