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Originally Posted by AAAAA
(((LizardLady))) I’m so sorry for your loss. I don’t think people can understand what the loss of a parent is until they experience it for themselves. I wasn’t prepared, nor could I have predicted how much it would absolutely destroy me. I’d lost loved ones before, but nothing prepared me for the loss of my father.
Before going through it I could comprehend the loss associated with a spouse or a child. These things are unnatural. If you would have tried to explain it to me before it happened, there’s no way I would have believed it.
Perhaps they just don’t get it, and God Bless them that they haven’t had that type of loss.
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Man did you hit it on the head about not being prepared. I knew well in advance that Mom was terminal. I've lost more people in my life than I want to list. I thought I knew how it would hurt. I thought I was ready for it. Boy howdy was I wrong! She died in September last year and it stills hurts like it was yesterday. Thanks for understanding