Hi Suga,

It is enough already, this man does have issues. I've been there and done that. It wasn't pretty or pleasant. It has damaged me more than did them. Please weigh your options carefully. The isolations and mis-treatment, along with his abuse of alchohol is text book. Classic setting for slowly destroying you. In my case it turned into physical abuse, and resulted in a mental break down.

You are young and sound very intelligent. So if your not happy or ever affraid, get
out while you can. Sure it hurts but it can get much worse. It took me a long time to get past the lasting effects of this kind of relationship.

Please be safe and smart.