That makes sense to talk about what is really bothering me instead of the miniscule issue that started it. I do every once in a while sit him down and try to tell him the things that I need for him to do to help me, he will say okay and then he doesn't do much of it. He will try, but when he forgets over and over he uses the excuse that he can't change overnight. He says that every time, or when I ask him something about anything, his response is, "I don't know!" That is his token phrase when answering a complicated question.

I will try that though, telling him why I am really upset, thanks!