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Old Jun 19, 2010, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted by wottesworthgurl View Post
maybe I tried to make friends too fast..

or was just being plain annoying. That's one thing I'm good at.

people lately are just annoying the heck out of me (my mom)

there is one person i know on fb and he goes to my school he is annoying me

at school everyone makes fun of me and says that i like him....barely nobody talks to him at school

im trying to fit iin with you guys on here in the chats it never works i get ignored everytime...whats wrong with me....iim complete crap.
Gurl, I see some similarities between the way you feel that you are treated and the way that you are treating this boy?? I am finding that this is sort of common. I was once complaining about people being judgemental while in the same breath I was judging others. Someone pointed this out to me and I stopped being judgemental and the whole problem went away! I have also seen this in others. It's a funny thing.

You don't have to date him, how about just being his friend? It sounds like you want friends. Is it because you feel that others don't like him? Or do you not want to be a member of any club that would have you as a member (you dislike yourself so much that you devalue anyone who would like you)?

I am really sorry that your mother treats you that way. That is so wrong! I wonder if she was treated that way while growing up?
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