I have experienced this- difficult to find much information on the web or in print. This is one good link:
http://www.canadiancrc.com/Female_Se...awareness.aspx Technical information at the beginning with links to many news articles.
Get a good T if you don't already have one, and be gentle with yourself. I believe there are others out there, just isn't documented much.
I agree it adds to the shame and difficulty not hearing much about it- thanks for asking, you are very brave!