I know I haven't heard about the whole relationship but it struck me that a lot of it is based on going out many nights a week? I think it's difficult to have a good, healthy relationship based on evenings out rather than just the two people. One doesn't have to be in the other's pocket all the time but "group dating" is not a relationship. It sounds like you would like a quieter, more "personal" life and it also sounds like you're not going to get it with this man.