I have spoken to 1 of my friends who "disappeared" she has ironically "disappeared" althogether in my life and I am a bit hurt as I really liked her company. She has Post-Natal Depression but is doing great. She has acquired new friends so I am dumped.

I haven't spoken to anyone else as I feel a bit stupid asking them... oh no wait I did I asked my best mate and she said we are fine and she isn't going to abandon me etc. She is sometimes weird when we talk ie 1 worded answers like she isn't listening.

When I talk on line and they "disappear" they don't tell me prior to them doing it. They just do it. Which I find is very rude