Wonderful Kimmy! My mom had been talking to me about sex since the end of middle school. I'd be like MooooM! sex is gross, then she'd be like you know there are kids having sex your age. Anyhow, all along my highschool years she would bring up the subject of going on birthcontrol. When I was with my first serious boyfriend, she said that if I was thinking of having sex that she'd like me to be on birth control and she wouldn't judge me. Anyhow, I had rules for myself I had to be 18 and no longer in higschool, no sex with out condoms, and in love with my boyfriend. I really think that those talks helped me wait, where as other people are like oh kids will go out and have sex if you say stuff like that.