help i don't know how or what to say or do when you find out someone is dying? how and what do i say to my godfather/uncle. he knows he is dying, he just found out, 3 weeks ago he called to tell me he was on his last chemo and everything looked great! and now i get a letter from my aunt saying they found cancer in his glands, it has spread and is now considered untreatable. what do i do? how and what do i say to him? i love him sooooooo much!!