I am going to give him the chance to abide by the contract and make the payments by MAIL, but I have informed the landlord that if he fails to make payments and does not hand over the computer willingly I will come to the house with the police. She was fine with this. My only added concern is that the landlord wants to kick him out and if that happens I may not be able to find him except through his parents.

I'm just so sad and sick about this whole thing. My gut has been bothering me enough that I looked up his online name and found him registered on several local hook up sites, so now i'm wondering if there was more going on than just the recent cheating with the co worker and how much i've been exposed to. I've reached a level of depression over this where it's almost impossible for me to get out of bed in the mornings and I don't ever think i'll trust myself or another person again.