I understand completely. I take meds at 8:15 every night so I am not completely drugged the next morning. But my husband always wants to stay up late. Knowing that then I will be unable to get up on time for work. Plus by 10:00 I am so tired I WANT to go to sleep. Also I try to quit drinking since I take medication so he goes out and buys a bottle of vodka or picks me up a bottle of wine. And by the end of the day with the kids I WANT that glass or two of wine. Theres other things that he does without considering I have bipolar. So I totally understand. I even printed him off some info about the bipolar but he never did read it. As long as he can handle my mood changes I guess he will continue to do the things that bothers my moods.