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Old Jun 21, 2010, 08:03 PM
AkAngel AkAngel is offline
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Originally Posted by Deborah35 View Post
I was wondering why it seems that some men see it as that when a woman wants to get affectionate or wants to spend alot of time together. I guess it depends on both people in the relationship. For example if I wanted to spend time with this person, I wouldn't want them to see me as clingy. I couldn't help it if I enjoyed their company so much that I wanted to be around them a lot. I agree CindyLuWho, that affectionate does not have to equal to needy.
It's a Goldilocks issue. This amount of affection and spending time is too little, this amount is too much and this amount is just right - what just right is depends upon the person. Sounds like your 'just right' is his 'too clingy'.