Hmmm ...I think it matters if one is wanting to know specifically what their issues are in order to understand them. One pdoc may say they are the same yet another points out specific differences.

I think though that if it were me I'd plant the doc and demand to know what he meant about your beliefs, that sounded like a not too thinly veiled attempt at sarcasm and judgementalism; Harry (my name for an atheist non-god), knows we have enough problems to deal with,

Rhi