Thanks, wanttoheal. Your post made me feel better about it. Believe me, I don't want to do this in person, but I feel it will make it easier for her. Also, I'm going to give her money for the next 3 months (as I've been doing for the last 3 years) until she can get a job. So, hopefully she won't have to worry about money on top of everything else. Concerning a friend/family... She doesn't have any friends and her family hates me (nor do I have their numbers).. Not sure who to tell to watch out for her...