My family is like that too and I am actually the "lesser" child with my BP unfortunately. Some times I wish they didn't know but I could not hide it from them. However, I know I have to do what's right for me no matter what they think. Meds and therapy are pulling yourself up however.

Not everyone tells their families. Are you looking for support? Do you feel like you're hiding it from them?

I have a friend who decided not to tell is family; he saw that it would not bring them closer or help him for support as he knew he would just be criticized and it would cause an even greater divide in his family. He feels very positive in this decision. It does not affect his relationship with them being none the wiser, neither does his brother. His sister knows and some friends know and are very supportive.

I'm not saying this is the case for you but in helping you decide how you want to tell them, look at why you want to tell them so you can get out of the interaction what you need and benefits the relationship. You have to do what's right for you and that empowers you in your environment, treatment, and life.