I believe that in times of need our loved ones will come. I do not think they sit around watching all the time. Well not all of them anyway. I know that I am never alone, I know that my mother comes to visit often because my son, he's 3 and only saw her when he was an infant, has pointed to pictures of her and said she was playing last night. I also know that my soul mate, true love, whatever you want to call him, is with me on an almost daily basis. He lets me know he's around, or at least I believe he does. He visits me in my dreams and we talk, I talk to his mom about my dreams and she has them too. She and I have met up in dreams too and she's alive. I think the power of the mind is far greater than what we think. I also believe in reincarnation though, but I think reincarnation is a choice, as in when you get to come back, not necessarily what you come back as . Ok I'm done.. I promise I am not delusional