It's true, we can end up having emotional relationships over the internet that leave out the husbands & that can start up other relationships that do turn into cheating, so if your husband has the least amount of jeaslousy, that would make sense that he would react that way about the computer (not that you are actually doing anything).....but then if you aren't typing anything you don't care if he reads, then it's no big deal anyway.

Sounds like your husband hasn't really gotten over the affair that 6 years ago even though he says he has (actions speak louder than words).

I hope you will be able to work things out with him, but if you don't, living alone isn't such a bad thing....know I could never go back to my husband (we are only separated at this point, but living 2200 miles away from him after I left guarantees the separation is permanent.

There is no reason to take abuse, but if there is a possibility to work things out, that would also be a good thing if possible....but he has to work through his problems as much as you do....its a 2 way street!!!!!

Best wishes,
Debbie