Hmmm everyone has their own idea...normal and totally acceptable but I agree with Perna about the subconcious self harming in order to avoid. Thing is what we think we attract but usually at a most inopportune moment.

However...I also agree that in order to maintain future relationships it would be most beneficial to go. You never know you may just enjoy it. Besides you only have to put in an appearance at dinner and make your apologies when it comes to the dancing or "Clubbing" part of the evening. But going along and wishing her future happiness is important.

You risk making a problem for your hubby with his family if you just beg off and decide to break your leg. Please think before you cause a rift in your family, and his family are your family too,

Loving thoughts,

Rhian