I am in my 40's and have never had a boyfriend until two years ago. mostly because of my fear related to my past.
Well we get along great and have spent a lot of time together including many many vacations.
the problem is! when he drinks he gets so angry!!! and starts screaming and cursing.

In the past he has screamed and cursed about work, or political things, but this last time he got drunk he started cursing and screaming at me about me.

I hung up the phone and have refused to talk to him since

Am I wrong -- should I take his calls.

I lived my entire childhood and teenage years full of severe and traumatic abuse and vowed never ever to take it from anyone ever again. Am i going to far in the other direction? Am i being unreasonable?