Thread: Totally done
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Old Jun 23, 2010, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by salukigirl View Post
I have told him before that I know I dont deserve this and that there are plenty of people out there that respect me and love me the way I am but somehow he always weasles his way back in......Im trying really hard not to let that happen anymore.
STAND YOUR GROUND!!! Do NOT put up with that kind of treatment. When he thinks he's losing you--or when he actually has lost you--expect him to be really nice to you for a while; that's the pattern. That's *how* they weasel their way back in. But it's an act, until they have you where they want you--right back in the palm of their hand again.

(I am not talking about men in general here. I am talking about abusers, which can be of either sex.)