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Originally Posted by salukigirl
I have told him before that I know I dont deserve this and that there are plenty of people out there that respect me and love me the way I am but somehow he always weasles his way back in......Im trying really hard not to let that happen anymore.
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STAND YOUR GROUND!!! Do NOT put up with that kind of treatment. When he thinks he's losing you--or when he actually has lost you--expect him to be really nice to you for a while; that's the pattern. That's *how* they weasel their way back in. But it's an act, until they have you where they want you--right back in the palm of their hand again.
(I am not talking about men in general here. I am talking about abusers, which can be of either sex.)