That was another thing. I feel like the way he talks to me and treats me is considered abuse but he doesn't physically hurt me.

Well now that I said that thats not entirely true. Like one time I was laying on the couch and he kept sitting on me when I asked him to stop so I gave him a little slap on the back to get him off of me and he turned around and slapped me. If I wouldn't have put my arm up he probably would have hit my face. And a couple other times. Like he will be joking around, Ill ask him to stop, push him off or away to get away from him and then he retaliates at me retaliating....... Like if he cant have his way he just goes nuts. He will start cussing and yelling over nothing. Then tell me that I raised my voice first and thats why he is yelling. Is that still abuse?