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Originally Posted by perpetuallysad
Um, yes. In my opinion that is definitely abusive behavior. I am very sensitive to abuse, so it may not be construed as abusive by someone else. Restraining you by sitting on you is just as bad as tying you up or something. You pushing him off of you is not retaliation, it is you protecting yourself.
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I agree 100%... When someone does not respect you or respect that you are saying "hey, stop, cut it out." Yes, that's abusive. They're not listening.
You might try to imagine if your situation belonged to a friend... How would you view the situation? What advice would you give her? Sometimes that is helpful for me when I can't see the situation (I'm in) anymore.
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