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Old Jun 23, 2010, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by salukigirl View Post
That was another thing. I feel like the way he talks to me and treats me is considered abuse but he doesn't physically hurt me.

Well now that I said that thats not entirely true. Like one time I was laying on the couch and he kept sitting on me when I asked him to stop so I gave him a little slap on the back to get him off of me and he turned around and slapped me. If I wouldn't have put my arm up he probably would have hit my face. And a couple other times. Like he will be joking around, Ill ask him to stop, push him off or away to get away from him and then he retaliates at me retaliating....... Like if he cant have his way he just goes nuts. He will start cussing and yelling over nothing. Then tell me that I raised my voice first and thats why he is yelling. Is that still abuse?

It sure as heck is abuse saluki! Just get him out of there you shouldn't have to suffer the way you are because he's spoilt. I think you are being too nice in being concerned that he can't support himself financially. I believe he is using that as an excuse and he truly believes he has you controlled and under the thumb.

Any kind of abuse is not acceptable under any circumstances. Get your apt back and then when the lease is up move if he is bothering you. Or take out a restraining order against him.

Bullies need to be tasting their own medicine methinks

Rhia
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