I tend to post too many words and talk to much and it pisses people off..so I'm just going to come out and try to ask this point blank.

This question is only for parents whose "children" are adults.

If your son/daughter asks you for help.. and after months of debating it and questioning it.. you decide to offer that help..

Do you feel that you have a right to know all the specific details of WHY they need your help? Do you NEED to know? Where is the line drawn between privacy? Do you help with no questions asked because for the simple fact of "helping" and being "supportive" ? Or do you need to know WHY they are in this position and came to you?

Note: We're not talking about asking for money nor anything illegal.