Believe me I'm the same way I have issues with that same problem..but i found that we have low self esteem about ourselves and we need to fix that! It's not about how she looks..hell if we had the money we would look that way too, but thats not the way it is. You just need to believe in yourself and that is what truly makes you beautiful inside and out, its hard work but feeling confident is the best way! Keep your head up and good luck to you