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Old Jun 24, 2010, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted by salukigirl View Post
What I'm curious of is that, if he sees these abusive tendencies in himself, CAN he change?
Anything is possible saluki, but what is important is how many times they attempt to or say they will change and then revert within a couple of weeks, in some cases days, to their old patterns.

And those who stay don't stay because they want to help the abuser, it is because they do not have enough self love or respect to simply say "NO!"

Cheers,

Rhia
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