thanks i think in going to need all the luck that i can find, it would be easier tp help him trough these dark days if he would trust me enough to help but hes not told anybody what set this of its to do with a ex friend but what trigered this we dont know he was ok for 6wks untill last tue when something made this problem get stuck in his train of thoughts and he cant shift its stopping him being able to spend tome with his family as hes scared to walk down the street (we are seperated and this friend was involved) we are friends were trying to sort out our problems untill all this kicked of he living at his parents up the road this friend lives next door to me