Sdgirl-thank-you for saying you don't think I'm a prude. I know I don't know people here, but that's what makes these opinions worth so much to me!!

And Evening thank-you!! You've just validated what I've been thinking all along. That no one has the "right" to touch me however they want-this is my damn body! After I got offline here last night, I went into our room and tried to use an analogy? on him. He *hates* having his toes touched. Don't know why, I've asked him and he says he just doesn't like it. So, I told him nicely, "Tell you what. You can finger me anytime you want. But I get to touch your toes whenever I want, no matter what you're doing. I can suck on them too if I want. What are you a prude?"(that last part wasn't meant to be nice I was still hurt!!). I don't actually want to suck on his toes, but there are some people that do and it's a sexual thing. I was trying to make him realize it works both ways.

It didn't work though. He told me to go ahead?!! He knows I don't want to suck his toes! I was expecting a "you're right, I don't want you to touch my toes and you don't want me to finger you when we're not in bed. I understand now."

I'm gonna stick to my guns though. I'm not gonna do what he does and disrespect his wants regarding his body, but I am gonna keep telling him I don't like this and to stop! It is AWESOME, believe me, to hear someone else's opinion besides HIS, on this matter. I no longer believe that I could be a prude, that I AM normal