I really hope you do something about this. I know this is going to sound bad, but my uncle forced my aunty to have sex with him while they were married a few years ago. Now my aunty has my 9 year old cousin to remind her of that. So I really do worry for you and how you must be feeling. He is taking advantage of you, sexually humiliating you and being abusive. He's being smart about it too, judging by your story about the toes, he knows EXACTLY what he is doing and what he is causing for you and he's enjoying it. It's not okay at all.