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Old Jun 25, 2010, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by salukigirl View Post
Thank you so much Cthomas for your story. I feel deep down that he truly does love me which I have never felt with a person before. I feel like he truly does believe that these actions are okay and seeing how they affect others is half the battle. And I do realize that I should have spoken up sooner and said "Im not allowing you to talk to me like this". I guess at first I just thought "I can handle some jokes every now and then because I make fun of him too" but eventually it just got to be too much.

That's why I'm voicing it now after 1.5 years because I don't want to go that far and get married for it to just escalate.
Thanks! I think my husband kept thinging I would just drop what was making me mean. He just kept pushing it off till he reached his limit. I know I have a problem. Good for you for voicing how you feel right now. It took the threat of a divorce to get me to change.

I really believe it can be done. good luck to you. I hope it works out good!
Colleen
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