I use it to think better of myself My poor husband has to look at other women anyway when he has the #1 woman, me, all to himself. Poor dear, can't help himself :-)

My husband was married before and sometimes his ex-wife will call too often or want things, etc. and I just smile because I know he's mine! She was the one who had him and gave him up, I can't conceive of why as he's the most perfect man for me I've ever met :-) When his sister-in-law (his brother's wife) asks me if I mind when his ex-wife monopolizes his time; I know that my husband does not enjoy dealing with her, it's a chore, and I'm just glad I don't have to (she and I are better friends perhaps than she and he are) that it's his old business, not my problem!

But your husband is his own self; doesn't "belong" to you and can look at and enjoy whomever and whatever he wishes. If you are complaining about what he's looking at, that's your problem, especially since he isn't over the top about it. I love the Corona beer commercials:

the "new" one has him picking up his own lime and doing it to himself, LOL.