cut a long story short my husband left back in june between that and aug he had a relationship with the female that was my best friend she was causing trouble before he left when she told him it was over at the beginning of aug he spent the week hanging out with me and his brother then she contacted him again
at the end of the week i tried to kill my self (she lives next door to me )as soon as she thought he was interested in sorting things out with me she took him back and then within two weeks he contacted me again and told me he thought there relationship was all one sided on his side , i kept in contact with him and 2 and 1/2 wks later she told him that she loved him and have a nice day at work and when he got to work she txt ed him it was over , he took a overdose and nearly died since then i spent as much time with him trying to help him we even stated a relationship up but the last week he s become even more depressed withdrew from me and told me he wants closure with her , we been marrid nearly 14yrs togeather 16yrs 2 children togeather and hes raised my 2 girls from previous relationship , hes visted me today but while i was out he sent her a txt waiting a response , im hanging in there as i hope this is part of his depression and when hes starts to get better he might realise what obsessing over her telling him what went wrong ,as this is controlling his life shes moved on and shes the sort of female that enjoys over ppls unhappiness so shes enjoying this , im confused because from one week to the next hes gone from wanting to be a family again to just friends is he trying to protect us from what might come of this contact as he knows i wont talk to her and the children arnt happy about it as well he told someone he doesnt want to hurt ppl or get hurt but hes hurting im hurting the children are hurting his mother isnt happy and the rest of his family dont know what to make of this.