lynn;
I value your opinion, just let me reiterate that I have never spoken to this friend about my relationship........I have a strong one with my wife. She is old fashioned in values too and I am committed to her (38 years now) and have no one else in mind. You are right she does have other motives and I am tired of all this drama.
My DW leaves it in my hands and I told her what I was going to do, that is this......I am sending her one last email telling her how I feel about her saying those things about my wife. Then I am deleting my account, further since this friend can contact me through our work system I am blocking her from sending me anything there, we have changed our phone numbers and that should do it.
Again....thanks for your opinion......no offense taken, you're a gem.
Quote:
Originally Posted by lynn P.
As you know 50guy I respect you - but I hope you won't mind me being honest. Unfortunately the internet makes these kind of connections all too easy. I'm a little old fashioned - where I don't think it's right to talk about a spouse, unless it's in a good way. She should be talking to a counselor and I can't help but think she had other motives. Usually this kind of emotional bonding leads to physical cheating.
I don't blame your wife for not liking this and the fact she actually went to meet her face to face - makes me think she was very ticked. I also wonder, what were you getting out of this arrangement? Would you be okay if your DW communicated about your marriage problems with another man? I hope you don't mind my straight forward questions?
I think you should end this as quickly as possible by telling her the truth or changing your email. If she's over bearing I would be concerned she might make a pest of herself. I wouldn't be worried about hurting her feelings - or else your wife's feelings will get hurt. I hope my straight forward opinion doesn't hurt your feelings.
|