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Originally Posted by Jenn1fer82
I noticed it once before but wasn't sure of it until it happened again last night. My bf and I were in the middle of have sex and I was enjoying it until suddenly I noticed that he lost his erection. I didn't know what to do and went along with what he wanted to do. He kept trying and I can sense his frustration. Finally I had to stop and made up an excuse so we could stop. I'm curious but what would cause something like that to happen and how should I talk to him or if I should even talk to him about this?
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Dear Jen1fer82:
As long as there are human beings this question will arise. Few men go through an entire life without at least one episode of Erectile Disfunction (ED). And that includes not being able to get it up at all, or losing it before anyone has had an orgasm. This is WILDLY embarassing to the man. SHAMEFUL. Do NOT make a joke of it, try not to pay any attention to it at all. If he knows what he's doing, he will still be able to bring YOU to orgasm without his organ being erect. But this kind of failure on his part is a real long term worry for him, a very serious worry. If it happens more than once or twice, gently encourage him to go to his urologist, or a urologist if he hasn't seen one before. They are the specialists who deal with this issue. And there are many ways to deal with it. The both of you can still have a perfectly satisfactory sex life with the help the urologist can give you.
Take care.