so true, seeker. one of the reasons why i don't plan on leaving him. i look at this fwb and think to myself, he probably has the least amount of baggage of most men i know his age. as far as anyone wanting me for support...haha the jokes on them. since being downsized and having to take my present job, i have no money, no savings left, and the house is in jeapardy. someone like that wouldn't hang around for long.
i do believe this has morphed from an fwb situation into a situation where he only wants to see me when his almost non existant libido kicks in. at least the last week or so has been that way. if this continues, i will start turning down invites to his house. i have sunk pretty low to even start this, but that is a place i won't go. maybe he has something on his mind, i don't know. his behavior in the last few weeks has been very different.