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Old Jun 27, 2010, 01:21 AM
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Hey there,

I laugh at funny thoughts (out loud) and get strange looks at times. I don't like small talk either and I think it is insulting to our intelligence to play the fake social game of 'Oh dahhhling how arrrrre you?!" when really the person saying it is thinking "Gimme another drink fgs so I can put up with these people!!!".

But it could very well be that you just truly do have appalling social skills and that may be the issue there? I was brought up to be the "perfect" person in social settings, so of course I much prefer to be just who I am. I'm not rude and I don't treat people at all badly. But I'm not going to gush over a woman I dislike because of her overbearing personality or the person who pretends to like me because I can donate something to her charity. So we must be a little alike there. I don't conisder my adult choices to be a personality disorder or schizophrenia.

I think you have enough to deal with. If it were me I wouldn't go looking for further diagnoses, I'd sit quietly and try not to do the things that people are commenting on , it's less work for me in the long run

Loving thoughts,

Rhia
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