Your situation is a sad one. Your therapist should know better than to get you to ask him how you can "make" him love you again...no one can make anyone love them.

But it also tells me that it is a control situation not a lack of love. He just wants you to be his version of normal; whatever that is.

You are unable to simply recover from mental illness it's a complex road of medication, therapy and continual awareness of your feelings and thoughts and moods. As CedarS commented you can't be someone you are not and you can't just manifest a cure for mental illness, that is why we have symptoms, so we know we have it. But if you are not feeling any symptoms then maybe you are in remission?

There is lots of help and support here cydniey and people will help as much as they can; only you however can decide whether this is a control issue or someone who genuinely does not understand mental illness and its vageries,

Loving thoughts,

Rhia