Hi uoffl,

I know what you mean, when I get mad about something I can't stop thinking about it. All in all this doesn't seem fair. Why hasn't your boyfriend told his family about you? Are they very strict? Even so, he should be open enough to tell you about this. Also, if you want to go out with him and he never wants to go... or never invites you anywhere this doesn't sound very fun. I think you really have to sit down and talk to him about this. Maybe take a few deep breaths so that you don't come across as angry with him and simply ask him what is going on in a nice but assertive way. It is not weird at all to want to be going out with your guy, or to want to join him with his family or friends. If there is a reason you can't join him with his family (or his friends) he should tell you what that is. But it doesn't seem fair that he won't even talk about it...
Let us know how it goes.

E