Welcome to PC Calie,

Pardon my forwardness but I don't think you are in a fully committed relationship. He hasn't dealt with his loss and obviously is excluding you from some key areas of his life.

If you were both fully committed there would be no partitioning of his life off from you. As it is you are doing all the understanding and he is not really doing anything that can be considered concerned or considerate about your feelings.

I wouldn't be asking anything at the moment except "Do you see this going anywhere?"

Loving thoughts,

Rhian,
xxx