Thank you Rhian. I do not see you as forward just honest. I have asked myself the same question. If we had met and he told me straight out she had recently passed, I cannot say that I would have continued to see him, maybe casually and as friends and see where it went from there, but that is not how it happened. I know we are not in a "relationship" because he cannot fully commit at this point, I hope one day he is able to move forward.