is it possible this guy is a sociopath? he gets angry with me for no reason, doesn't seem to care if plans have been made, he gets drunks and forgets them. he has a history of a failed marriage, a failed 8 year relationship that supposedly ended because she wanted children and he did not. he told me he would get mad and tell her to go home and he would call her in a couple of days, or he would get mad if they were out, make sure she had a ride home then leave. he is still in contact with her, 10 years later, tho she is married with children. he had a two year relationship with a single woman at work, before she moved away. he told me when she got "too clingy" he wouldn't call her for a couple of months. i can't believe she came running back after that. she sent him an expensive birthday gift last year, tho she's been gone for a few years.
he lost a job he had for 27 years due to his drinking, lost out on a 1500$ month pension and health benefits because of it.
he seems obsessed with his ED, his size, and when drunk tells me i just don't realize he's a major disapointment.
why am i attracted to these losers? if he is a sociopath, i need to cut it off, now. we'll see how he acts tonight if he doesn't call in sick, which he does as often as he can without getting written up.
i need to get him out of my mind and my life.... he blows hot and cold. for weeks he will act very close to me, then out of the blue he will be cold and angry, for no reason i can think of.