((( Lexi)))) I am sorry you are feeling so down..I have known a lot of men my dad included who sleep on the sofa a lot..Its like they are beat and watching TV or reading and wham they go to sleep and its hard to wake them..That doesn't make your bed feel less empty ..Can you maybe talk with him about this when he is wide awake and kinda start moving him to tv watching in the bedroom near nightfall?