Hey, I'm new here. I am 22 years old and my main issue is that I tend to be depressed because I am unhappy with myself. The unhappiness with myself is mainly about me not being appealing to girls like other guys are. And it something that is on my mind CONSTANTLY. I literally don't stop thinking about it at all. No matter what I am doing, it will come to my mind. For some reason, the way I am perceived by girls is something that is VERY important to me, like to a point where I don't think it is nearly as important to other guys.

Another thing is that, for some reason, I am VERY self conscious about aging. The fact that I look kind of mature for my age has bothered me for a while now. But more recently, the fact that I am 22, almost out of the conventional "college age" and have really not enjoyed my time the way I would have liked(never had a girlfriend, never got attention from girls, barely ever even hung out with girls) has me feeling really depressed. I don't know, maybe it's because I am sentimental and the idea of "missing out" on something. But because of this, I have found myself becoming really angry and depressed whenever i see a sign that guys in that age group that I passed are more desirable to women that someone like me. For example, whenever I hear anything about women my age and older liking Justin Bieber, it immediately kills my mood and makes me feel depressed.

I'm just wondering, does my problem sound like OCD? I thought it might be because this is something I can't stop thinking about.